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Tarleisio

Oh, gosh...My mother wore so many. In fact, I blame her fair and square for my own terminal case of perfumania. With one exception, I can't wear any of these, simply because of that association with her. It's like playing dress-up in Mommy's closet aged four, trying to fit in her heels...

I can remember...Jolie Madame, violet and rose and all things nice, Shalimar the Immortal, Mitsouko, Fidji, Narcisse Noir, First...it makes for a list of opulent, va-va-voom, sensual perfumes, and that's the kind of woman she was, and a Scorpio, too! ;-) She initiated me by taking me to Paris for a 14th birthday, since I was now ready for the 'real thing'...going to the Guerlain flagstore on Champs Elysées and admonishing me to...pick what I loved. (I loved Jicky, and I still do!). I recall she left with both Shalimar and Mitsouko in parfum...

They are all so beautiful, just as she was, and I can't wear them, except for Fidji. Fidji I purloined in my late teens (back when it was still Great, Good and Gorgeous), and I wore it happily for many years, for the happiness it gave me and the memories it evoked. I wish I still had some vintage, just for that alone.

Such was her love of perfume, she left instructions when she died to be buried with one. She chose First. It was her last. Now. it's hers, always! ;)

Perfumaniac

Tarleisio, thanks for the beautiful response. It's no surprise you have a terminal case of perfumania if your mother had exquisite taste like that! How wonderful that she took you to Paris at 14 —  to the Guerlain counter no less! —  and I can't believe that at that age you had the sophistication to appreciate Jicky. Your mother sounds like she was an amazing woman, and to have the foresight to choose the perfume she was going to be buried with? That is true love.

JoanElaine

I'm so glad you did this post! You must STOP your mother from tossing out her Scherrer. That's just not right ;)

As per our previous convo, my mother wore Emeraude, Wind Song, Jontue and Alyssa Ashley Musk when I was a young child. These perfumes were usually Christmas gifts from my Father. He was forbidden to buy her appliances and sleepwear that looked "cozy" so perfume was a smart choice.

When I was a teenager, she wore Shalimar, Ruffles, and I know I said Fidji before, but she said she does not remember having Fidji! I have a mini bottle, and I'll get her to smell it. Perhaps having a good sniff will jog her memory.

Last night I smelled Replique for the first time, thanks to a lovely perfumista who sent me a sample. Every whiff of it smelled of the someone from my past. I don't think my mother wore it, so perhaps one of my many aunts. If I was closer with my relatives, I would like to do a sort of "perfume family tree". I would love to know who wore what, and if daughters and sons ended up wearing the same/similar scents, or if they rebelled.

I don't care for the perfume she's been wearing over the past 15-20 years, Perry Ellis 360 and Ralph Lauren Romance. Last Fall, she smelled Soivohle Violets and Rainwater on me and loved it, so she wears that now.

Now if I could just get her to crack that bottle of Chanel No.5 she has tucked away somewhere...

Jane Daly

Lovely post! Perfume is my earliest memory of my mother and my dear aunt who was like a mother to me. My mother wore Shalimar and Replique, then later Chanel 22, Nahema and Oscar de la Renta. She hasn't worn perfume in many years and had a disastrous experience with reformulated Replique. I recently got a vintage 1970 Shalimar edc for her- she opened the bottle, put some on and nearly wept. She said she felt like she'd been transported back in time. She is enjoying it immensely. I remember playing on her dresser and that Guerlain Montre bottle with the conical cap.

My aunt wore MANY perfumes, and her whole house smelled like the ground floor of a department store. Femme was one of her favourites. She also wore Arpege, Coriandre, Lumiere, and when the big 80s perfumes came along she was in heaven. Giorgio was her favourite but she wore Poison too. She bought me l'Air du Temps, and always got me the body products, telling me that perfumed baths and powder were the ultimate luxury. I recall shopping with her once & she stopped at the Dior counter to buy Diorissimo. I knew she never wore that and asked her why she was buying it. "Why to spray on my lightbulbs of course!"

Olfacta

I wish my mother was still here to experience all of this with me. I didn't realize it until recently, but she was a perfume fan too. There were always lots of samples and small bottles around -- I remember Madame Rochas, Flora Danica (oh how I wish I had that now!) solid perfumes from Max Factor in unbelievably ugly compacts, and getting Avon's Charisma as a gift one Christmas.

In the Sixties, she wore Arpege and Moment Supreme, both of which I still have, and Woodhue cologne, which was a signature scent for her. Later, in the Seventies, she wore Charlie and Moon Drops. It was part of getting dressed for her. She was always what we called "bandbox" -- not a thread hanging, or a chipped nail or unwashed hair, ever. I used to scoff at that when I was younger, but appreciate it now.

flippy

I don't know if my mother had a signature scent. She died when I was 8, and I do remember her smell in some way, but was too young to know what was her and what was perfume. As an adult, I was given a purse of her things, including a tiny, empty sample bottle of Fleeting Moment by Balenciaga. On some visceral level, the trace smell emanating from the bottle reminded me of her and the era in which I knew her (the 70s), and it really drove home to me how much memory, especially purely emotional and bodily memory, is wrapped up with these scents.

And I will never forget when my dear, best friend, a vintage perfume enthusiast to whom I had told all this, tracked down some Fleeting Moment for me, so that I could smell more than an empty bottle. Now the scent evokes friendship, warmth, and presence for me as well as the more difficult feelings associated with my mother, and shows me how much power these strange smells have as they float in and out of our lives. Thank you for this lovely blog that reminds us of that.

Dorette

Arpege & Ecusson. I still have some Ecusson and treasure it.

Meg (Olenska)

My mom wore one thing, and one thing only, and lots of it: Jean Nate. I adored it then, but not so much now, since the formula seems to have been trimmed to the point of poverty. PS SAVE THE SCHERRER. The thought of it heading into the garbage can gives me the cold chills.

Patty

I know my late mom wore Evening in Paris when I was a kid, and some Avon fragrances over the years. However, the one I think was her favorite and that I associate with her is Coty's L'Origan. She also wore Coty's Airspun face powder, which is scented like L'Origan.

Tara

My mother wore Youth Dew and Paloma Picasso. She smelled great. However, those two are just terrible on me. It's not that I don't like big fragrances, I do and wear many (as a child of the 80s), but her skin made those fragrances magical.

Anna in Edinburgh

I know that my mum wore Youth Dew, Oscar de la Renta and White Linen when she was going out. For every day scent, she used the tiny inexpensive rectangular bottles of Pagan by Lentheric, which were little dab-on jobs. All of her chosen scents smelled terrific on her and I think of them still as her scents.

cheerio, Anna in Edinburgh

Perfumaniac

Wow, what an amazing array of answers! Thank you all so much for taking the time to share the list of scents your mother wore. I almost feel like I know something about their personality if they chose Youth Dew, say, over Jean Naté! I'm going to mull over this a bit and comment on each one. All of your comments made me think...

Barbara Orr

My Mother wore Gloria Vanderbilt.

Perfumaniac

JoanElaine:
I love the idea of a “perfume family tree.” I know that we inherit our mother’s taste in food (because of what she ate while we were in the womb, in part). I
wonder if there’s a genetic predisposition toward liking certain scents?

Jane Daly:
First off, I love a woman who is spraying her light bulbs with Diorissimo! That’s like feeding Beluga caviar to your cats! Pretty decadent. When I was a teen, I too, smelled like the ground floor of a department store.
I would totally binge on perfume when I went to mall! My mother would have an instant headache when I stepped into her car! And I’ve experienced giving someone a perfume they haven’t smelled in a long time. It makes sense someone would weep from the nostalgia…

Olfacta:
Your mother sounds wonderful, and there’s something to be said for a woman who looks put together all the time. Some people call this high maintenance, but I
think it means that life is worth dressing up for and smelling good for! Thanks for recalling her here and giving me some ideas for perfumes I need to try, for
example — Flora Danica!

Flippy:
I know very well about the lovely Fleeting Moment. ;-) It was wonderful to be able to find it for you. XOXO.

Dorette:
I’d love to try Ecusson!

Meg (Olenska):
I remember the 70s Jean Naté, but I guess it’s much older. I’d love to try the older JN because I remember liking the 70s version. And yes, you should have seen the look on my face when my mother even suggested that this perfume I’d been looking for, she had all along and had thought of tossing. SHIVERS.

Patty:
I love L’Origan, and I forget that Coty’s Airspun face powder smells like it! People are so into fragrance-free products that I don’t know if that would fly
now. I love lipstick that smells nice, for example…

Tara:
Maybe sometimes we can’t wear the perfumes our mothers did because we want to keep the memory of how it smelled on them untainted…

Anna:
I dabbled with Femme but like you, that’s one I consider my mother’s (old) scent, and it seems like hers so I don’t really wear it.

Barbara:
I was into Tatiana by DVF but I want to revisit Gloria Vanderbilt!

Aniela

My mother smelled Cristalle without wearing it.

She used to smoke; always slightly tired and unapproachable but still comforting and warm. Today, when I need a hint of the mother I smell Cristalle.

Amy

The earliest fragrance I can recall Mom wearing is Estee by Estee Lauder. I think she also wore Knowing at one point. Later on she wore Eternity, Allure and Tresor. She seems to have veered away from perfumes as of late; the only scent she wears now is White Musk from The Body Shop.

My grandmother always wore Blue Grass; smelling it always reminds me of her.

Perfumaniac

Hi Aniela, do you mean your mother owned Cristalle and sniffed it but didn't wear it? It's interesting that you associate smoking with Cristalle, too. I had a piano teacher who wore (I think?) Fracas, and when I remember her I remember Fracas + cigarette smoke, so in some way, it was more Bandit-like! Mixed emotions definitely come into play when remember our mothers' perfumes...

Perfumaniac

Thanks for sharing your mother's and grandmother's scents, Amy. I just got Estee and want to do a review. Blue Grass is on my list...As for your mother withdrawing from perfumes lately, I think it happens sometimes. There are periods when perfume is more important than others...

Anne

What an amazing range of answers!

My mother wore Yardley's April Violets all her life, but with a strange excursion into Youth Dew. I think she emptied two bottles of YD bath oil. A perfume more different to AV could not be imagined. She was deeply disappointed in the 1980s when Yardley replaced their dab on bottles with spays. Mum hated sprays, and she also thought the fragrance had changed. I suggested that the perfume could be the same but being atomised might change its character. She did not believe me, and she wrote to the company and complained (most unlike her). They sent her a whole bunch of freebies, but swore the formula had not changed.

Looking back I think we were both right. Spraying is different from dabbing, but at the same time, Yardley is one of those brands that has been bought and sold countless times, and from what Mum said, April Violets cost less and less for her to buy. So they were probably cheapening it as they went. This is why she started using Youth Dew bath oil. You could dab it. She abandoned it after a while, and went back to (sprays) of AV. I still have the bottle she had with her in hospital when she died. The nurses loved it apparently!

I also wear YD, but only use it in the bath, as a bath oil (fancy!). I can't wear Aoril Violets at all. However, a perfumista friend recently sent me a sample of Guerlain's Apres L'Ondee, and I love that as violet blend. It has all the supreme elegance of AV without being a soliflore, and it is something I could wear in my mother's memory. It is very fleeting tho' - needs to be sprayed! So in next summer I'm going to get a larger amount. Might even go a full bottle!

Thanks for a great post. Have you seen that other Arpege ad: 'Don't cry Mommy! I'm sure Daddy will give you arpege!'. Nauseating ... !

Joan

You all have such glamorous mothers!

My mother was never much into perfume. My grandmother was. She wore Joy and anything freesia-scented.

My aunt died before I was born, but I hear she was beautiful. She had a big bottle of Shalimar parfum.

50_Roses

It's funny, because my mother definitely contributed to my love of perfume, even though she didn't wear perfume very often. She HAD perfume--at least 15 or 20 bottles--but saved it for "special occasions". Some of my earliest memories are of sniffing the magical aromas of those bottles. I can remember no. 5, Arpege, Blue Grass, L'Origan, Tabu, D'Orsay Divine, Roger & Gallet Blue Carnation, and Avon Topaze. My favorite was the Blue Carnation, and trying to find it again has been one of my biggest frustrations. I have snagged two bottles of EdT and a jar of perfumed powder (not dusting powder--more like a dry perfume). The powder is lovely and smells very much the way I remember, but the two bottles of EdT both seem too clovey and not floral enough. I suspect they have gone off. It can't be a reformulation issue, as R&G discontinued it long ago (in the 70's, I believe).

In her book "Perfume: the Art and Science of Scent" (National Geographic Society, 1998), Cathy Newman puts forth the theory that we get our perfume preferences from our grandmothers, not our mothers. I believe this may very well be true, because my grandmother (my father's mother) not only had perfume but wore it regularly, and my tastes seem to be very similar to hers. I don't remember her mentioning it to me, and I never asked her what she wore, but she always smelled really good. After my grandparents died, I went with my parents to help clear out their house. I don't know all the things my grandmother had, as others had been there before us and my grandmother's things were picked over, but I did find nearly empty bottles of Shalimar extrait and Mitsouko EdC, as well as a half-full bottle of Arpege extrait. I love Arpege and Shalimar, and I liked pre-reformulation Mitsouko. The real "ghost in the bottle" experience for me, though, came the first time I smelled Vol de Nuit at the Guerlain counter. I had an immediate and vivid recollection of my grandmother. I suspect that she must have owned and worn VdN, and that its absence from her personal belonings indicates simiply that she either had used it up (and hadn't replaced it) before she died, or else someone else got to it before me.

Perfumaniac

50_Roses, Thanks to you, I'm now on the hunt for Blue Carnation! And I discovered, per your recommendation, another perfume book! (I ordered it as soon as I read your comment, in part because I need to understand the author's theory that scent preference is passed down from grandmothers. Personality-wise, I'm much more like my grandmother than I am like my mother.) Thanks for your walk through the scents of your mother and grandmother!

Perfumaniac

Hi Joan, Amazing, isn't it, to read this list of perfumes? It's like a secret history of a person's life...

Perfumaniac

Anne: Youth Dew seems to be a common thread in many of these perfume histories, perhaps in part because of its marketing as the perfume a woman could buy for herself. It's maddening that perfume houses don't have to disclose that a formula changed, when women who are so intimate with their product KNOW its different. It's quite insulting, really, to their loyal consumer base. As for that other Arpège ad, it does sound nauseating! The one I used is kind of creepy itself, but it fit in with the theme. (Interesting Arpège is all about the man buying perfume, and Youth Dew the woman buying it for herself.)

50_Roses

I hope I haven't misled you. The grandmother theory is only discussed briefly in chapter 2 "Memory and Desire". The book is wonderful, however, and I think should be in every perfumista's library. The author goes through a multitude of aspects of the history, production, and marketing of perfume. She observes the harvesting and processing of jasmine in France, attends a condensed perfumery school course in Grasse, has a perfume comissioned for her, talks about the search for new perfumery materials in the South American rainforests, and so on. And of course, since it is National Geographic, there are lots of gorgeous photographs.

Perfumaniac

Don't worry, 50_Roses! I'm always on the look-out for perfume books I've never heard of. Plus, it was only a few bucks on eBay! ;-)

Anne

Thanks 50_Roses, I've just ordered a copy of the Newman book too.

Nancy

My Mom's signature scent changed every few years, and after I was old enough to actually contribute more than just an opinion when Dad would take me on a gift buying exhibition, it seemed to depend on what I could afford. She was a practical lady who would only rarely spend money on herself, so looking back on the scents on her dresser is also like a record of my lifetime of financial and career success (or often lack of it). The first scent of my memory was Tigress with Tabu following, Windsong, and way too much Avon. By the end I was able to afford better, and proudly upgraded those last holiday offerings to Estee Lauder, but never Youth Dew, which was too "old" for her in her opinion (and she was in her 80's when she passed.) It was quite the proud day I could actually walk into Sax Fifth Avenue and purchase an Estee Lauder gift set, AND get free wrapping! Those gifts HAD to include a matching hand lotion or powder, which she would typically use up first. First thing in the morning was fragrance, lipstick, and maybe a bit of face powder, and she was ready to take on the world. One of the almost impossible to find scents I remember from those gifts was named Hot Cargo, which was from a makeup line called Fashion 220 that my Godmother sold. The whole world of vintage "nitch" and local market products seems like its own long lost universe.

moongrrl

When Mom wore fragrance, which wasn't often, she dabbed on some Coty Muguet des Bois cologne or an ancient patchouli oil. Mom's the original tomboy, has never had any interest in typically feminine ablutions, and would rather be changing the tire on a tractor than baking a cake.

If I had to say what smell(s) reminded me most of Mom, it would be Lava soap and Prell shampoo.

All of my interest in perfume came from my paternal grandmother, who always had a spray of something -Wind Song, Enjoli, Charile, Sophia, Bill Blass, or White Shoulders-on the front of her blouse.

Perfumaniac

Nancy, thanks for sharing this. I love to hear about the moms who really weren't that into fragrance, or were practical as you describe your mom, but who had it anyway.

And as for putting on her fragrance, lipstick and face powder and then being ready to take on the world, I just saw an amazing documentary on the New York Times street fashion photographer (Bill Cunningham), and he says that getting dressed is like putting on armor. I think it's even more the case for women.

Re: Hot Cargo and "the whole world of vintage 'nitch' and local market products" seeming like "its own long lost universe," I get a tremendous longing when I see such a product on eBay. Unknown provenance. Unknown history except to the women who wore it who will pass on without talking about it. Olfactory ephemera...

Perfumaniac

Moongrrl: Prell! My, my, I haven't thought of that in a while. I LOVED the way Prell looked in that tube as a kid.Very cute that even though your mom was a tomboy, she wore Muguet des Bois. That's pretty girly — and the opposite of patchouli!

angie Cox

My mother could not afford perfume as such . She wore Yardley's Lavender ,I don't like the smell much as her natural one of cooking, cats and yarn was what I remember. I , on the other hand, will be remembered for hardly ever wearing the same one .My daughter says I smell all Mumsy so Une Rose is stranger than I thought ! At the moment I am besotted with Keiko Mercheri's Damasenca .

Perfumaniac

Angie, I would prefer the scent of "cooking, cats and yarn too!" It sounds charming.

Thanks for the reminder that although we perfume-lovers say that perfume is an essential item, it is out of reach financially for some women. (This is why I wish there were more quality Enjolis and Charlies out today.) I love that you don't have a signature scent so much as a signature note. Besides Une Rose, which rose perfumes would you take to a desert island with you?

angie Cox

Oh my goodness , let me see as I load the trunk. There would have to be Vol de Nuit , Apres L'ondee , Scandal , Dia ,Chanel no 22 , Aimez Moi, Une Rose , Nahema . I'd like my desert island to mean deserted as in a Scottish highlands one that was cold. I'd need shelter in a cave and to be able to catch fish but most scents I love suit colder weather .

Mals86

This post has touched a nerve, Barbara! I have loved reading all the comments.

MY mother wore Chanel No. 5. That was her dress-up scent; she wore Jovan Musk for Women for "everyday," moving through Anais Anais and Coty L'Effleur and Elizabeth Arden 5th Avenue. For years I avoided No. 5 because it was the Smell of My Mother - but it is gorgeous. I love to wear Mariella Burani because it's very similar to No. 5, but just different enough that I don't feel that I'm wearing Mom.

I'm not sure about this grandmother thing... The grandmother that lived with us loved lipstick and nail polish and every Avon sample in the book; she regularly wore Avon Cotillion and Blue Grass, neither of which I liked, although it occurs to me that they might have been light- or age-damaged. The smell I associate most with her is that of Nivea lotion, which I also dislike. I miss her very much (she died four years ago, at 92), but not her smell.

My other grandmother liked perfume but never wore it - it gave her a rash. Elizabeth W Sweet Tea smells very much the way I remember her smelling, though. I put it on, not knowing what to expect, and there was Nell billowing up from the vial...

My aunts wear Lauder scents: Knowing, Beyond Paradise, White Linen. They smell lovely. I still don't know what about the Lauders makes them not work for me (they lead to nausea). And my mother's best friend, elegant and British, wore Cristalle. Which I only figured out after trying Cristalle and exclaiming "Georgina!" quite involuntarily.

Perfumaniac

Hi Mals, this post did touch a nerve! It started with a discussion I had with JoanElaine @ RedolentofSpices on Facebook, because I think she said my mom sounded cool (because of my reference to her in a post discussing her going back to college and what perfume she wore). I began to wonder, did all these perfume lovers I know get "that way" because of their mothers' influence?

I've really loved reading the responses and also learning about perfumes I've never heard of, or being reminded of the perfumes I've meant to try and haven't. It's just nice to hear people make a very intimate connection between someone they loved and a perfume.

It's wild that you can smell a perfume like Cristalle and think, as you said, of a particular person, Georgina. I think that's so beautiful that it can hold that sort of association. Aside from the aesthetics and pleasure we get from perfume on that level, I think perfume is also kind of a memory-inducing drug. Some people take drugs to forget; we take our drug of choice to remember...

breathe31

My mum is the reason I have owned over 300 perfumes because she could never commit to one! The only scent memories I associate with her are Jean Nate (regular gifts from dad), 4711 (she would borrow my dad's),Aliage (she adored the vintage,Nivea lotion and Pond's Dry skin cream. She never bought a bottle of perfume in her life because, as a manager of various textile companies in NYC for 50 years, the salesmen/company reps/various employers bequethed her with great fragrances as gifts (Shalimar,Youth Dew, Private Collection,White Shoulders,Bal a Versailles, Chanel 5,19,22, etc,etc,etc). When I was a young girl she shared ALL with me and even gave me the ones she didn't like. The closest one that comes to being a signature fragrance for her is Annick Goutal's Eau d'Hadrien which I introduced her to and then had to buy for her all the time. Nowadays she "inherits" any scent that my allergy prone family/co-worker complain about me wearing. I find that as she has gotten older her love of fine,vintage perfumes has changed and she prefers the now popular fruity-clean-fresh scents. I read somewhere that these scents evoke "youthfulness" which is perhaps why my mother gravitates towards them as she doesn't "want to smell like an old lady"( her words!).

Perfumaniac

breathe31: 300-plus perfumes is quite a collection! I love seeing my favorites among them: Chanel No. 19, Aliage, Shalimar...And lucky you that you got to inherit them and play with them. It's no wonder you've had a collection of your own over the years. And yes, the reason why so many of our mothers switch to light scents makes a lot of sense: to feel younger, fresher, less heavy with the weight of some of these sexier perfumes.

TxGal

My mother loved Shalimar, she wore it since she was married, after WWII at least. I remember my Dad would buy her a new fancy bottle for Christmas or her birthday. She would let me wear "just a little" for a special occasion. I felt so grown up! I still stop and smell Shalimar if I see it in a store, and think of my wonderful Mom.

Perfumaniac

Hi TxGal, Wow, that's such a lovely set of memories surrounding one perfume. Your father, his gift, Christmas, birthday, her gesture to you...It's all about love. Thanks for sharing it, and maybe you should get yourself a little bottle of Shalimar!

Patty

Barbara, my aunt (mom's sister) wears Gloria Vanderbilt, and it smells terrific on her!

Perfumaniac

Hi Patty. I remember liking it, and at the time I also had awesome Gloria Vanderbilt jeans with the swan on them! I thought I was so cool....

Nancy G

My mother wore Shocking until they stopped making it (the real one) in the '70s and then wore Ma Griffe. These are the ones I remember most. She wore others later on: Bill Blass was one, Pavlova another, but I don't remember her for these.

Perfumaniac

Nice, Nancy G. I love both Shocking and Ma Griffe, two vintages that are still easy to find and relatively cheap!

perfumeshrine

Not very original, but yes, mom liked perfume more than the average person (apple doesn't fall far from the tree and all that). Her absolute "bestest" was Cabochard which she adored. She also loved Dioressence, in the days when it was a complex ambergris oriental, not a "diet chypre". Then again there were others: Soir de Paris, Mitsouko, Tendre Poison, my gift of Tuberose Passion to her...several.
To boost the grandmother theory, my grandmother was an even bigger perfume lover than mom: she had (and used with abandon) everything that was trendy in each respective decade she was an adult and had minis collections before the concept had infiltrated the scene thoroughly. Her boudoir was a museum and a playground in one. The scent she almost "tautologised" with herself in later years was Madame Rochas. She was elegant, composed, friendly-smelling and warmish. Ah....

Marisa Wood

My mother wore Coriandre in the mid-70's, Oscar de la Renta in the late 70's and into the 80's. Now she wears Femme (I bought her a bottle for her last birthday).

I still own a small bottle of vintage Coriandre, and I wear it when I'm feeling nostalgic. To this day, it's the scent that reminds me most of Mom.

Perfumaniac

Vintage Coriandre is amazing, isn't it Marisa? It's hard to imagine it being popular now, even among women who like niche. It's so herby! Anyway, I love the others, too. My mother wore Femme (before she was my mother), and a cousin I'm fond of wore Oscar de la Renta...

Jan

"My Sin" by Lanvin and "Fath de Fath."

Aurumgirl

My mother was a driven perfumista. She always had a little collection of scents and made a signature out of a number of those fragrances. One of my earliest memories with my mother involves a trip downtown just to buy Miss Balmain at the old Simpson's department store in Toronto. I still remember us stepping off the streetcar and onto a far-less-crowded-than-today Queen Street (in the sense that cars could actually move on that street; they just don't, today). She was holding my hand as I stepped off and she had to help my brother down by lifting him up and carrying him across to the sidewalk, and through the great revolving door, and naturally we were perfectly dressed to match my mom. The store was huge and I don't recall much of the expedition itself, but I do remember the square bottle and the gold, purse-sized atomizer we came home with. She kept and refilled that for many years, until Miss Balmain became difficult to find.

She also loved the classics which she bought for herself, and she received a lot of perfume gifts from my father. Chanel No. 5, Shalimar (she had this incredible blue and white metal refillable "shell" that you could purchase large bottle refills for--she kept it for years, until Guerlain stopped selling the refills), Youth Dew and White Linen. I even remember bottles of Sortilege, Tweed by L'entheric, Tabu, Pierre Cardin for women (remember that?), Ciara, Tea Rose...and bottles of Je Reviens and Blue Grass, Charlie, Diorissimo, Chantilly, Fendi, just so many. But I'm not so sure of the Grandmother Theory--I think about what my grandmothers wore and all I can really remember is a kind of Acqua Colonia that you can find anywhere in Italy--neroli and bergamot and a bit of jasmine. And I never associate scent with my mother's mother, only my father's. Neither seemed to have my mother's desire for it (but then again, my mother was a very skilled cook who knew a lot about plants as sources for aromas, flavours, and medicine, so that must have had something to do with it). Maybe it applied where my mother was concerned: she could have developed her own interest through her grandmother's. Mom had an unusual name, she was named "Palmarosa", after the aromatic plant used for making perfume. I'm almost 100% sure she got that name from her grandmother.

Denise

Just found and loving this blog. I like you am involved in the hospice care of perfumes. My mother had several on the tray, Emeraude, Muguet, Charlie, are just a few that come to mind. But the stand alone star she wore most often and was my first headswimming love affair was Rive Gauche. I still love and wear it(one of the few reformulations I can live with).

50 roses thank you for mentioning that about grandmothers. Off to find that book because in my case at least I think it's true. While I did fall in love with my mothers Rive Gauche and still like vintage emeraude it's my grandmother whose scent preferences that are almost identical to mine. Her dresser was home to many of my favorites. Mitsouko, Miss Dior,Jicky, Houbigant ChantillyMa Grife even Katherine Denuve.

To contradict this my twelve year old daughter said to me the other day while we were discussing perfume(after she told me perfume is like music now. Everyone just accepts the crap they're told is good by everyone else" :proud: there's something in a lot of nice perfumes that's similar with all of them and it's just you. She meant woods I'm sure but I would guess or hope at least one day woodsy scents will be near to her heart.

Perfumaniac

Hi Denise, Glad you're enjoying the blog! Vintage Rive Gauche is gorgeous, and it's interesting you identify more with your grandmother's tastes — although given the roster of perfumes you mention, it might just be because of the era rather than genetics!  Do you really think people can accept that perfume's good even if it's "crap?" Music, maybe...but I don't think it works that way with perfume. I could be wrong...Thanks for stopping by!

Tracey

My Mother wore Narcissus, which I have been told was the first perfume made and is still being made in Paris. It is over 200 years old and can still be bought. My Mother started to wear this perfume in the 1930's and she always was telling me about it. I happened to visit a perfume shop in Sydney Australia a few years back and she ordered me in a Bottle from Paris, I only wish I had thought to do this for my Mother in her later years, she passed away in 2008 at the age of 92 years. It is a very soft perfume and I wear it now and again.

Tracey October, 2011. Sydney Australia.

Nick Byrne

Scandal by Lanvin; Le de Givenchy; Mitsouko by Guerlain; Chanel 5; Talisman by Balenciaga

Perfumaniac

Hi Nick. Your mother had fantastic taste! I've never tried Talisman; you've now gotten me curious!

Kathleen

Wow. . .I have always knows that smells can trigger waves of memories, but i just found out that reading about smells can do the same thing. My "no nonsense" Mom never wore perfume other than the Evening In Paris that my sister and I would chip in to buy at Woolworths on her birthday. I remember that it came in a box lined with blue satin. I had a friend with a very fashionable Mom who wore La Dix. I loved the perfume so much that as soon as I found my first job, I started wearing it. I was much to young (18), but it made me feel very special.

Perfumaniac

Hi Kathleen, I don't know about you, but if I'm reading about a perfume I'm familiar with, I'll conjure it up in my mind. And in the case of my mother's many perfumes, emotional memories of those times when she wore those perfumes will come up too. It's cute that you and your sister saved up and got your mother fancy perfume at Woolworths. I love the Evening in Paris bottles, boxes, and advertising. Thanks for sharing this memory with me.

glamour kitty

My Mom wore Tabu, Musk oil, and Pheremone. She always smelled fabulous. Even her clothing smelled of her perfume. She always had such glamorous jobs like model and private investigator. She is always well dressed and smells fabulous! I always tried to live up to her perfection, but I never made it. LOL. Even now she looks elegant, and I look ditzy!!

enjay

my mother wore white shoulders. My sister and I still wear it occasionally. I wore it this weekend in her memory :)

Emma

Miss Dior when I was little in the 70's, and Kiku. I've not had a chance to sniff Kiku since the 70's so wonder if it would bring back memories. I just remember the bright yellow plastic sphere of talcum powder on her dresser, which appealed to my toddler's instincts! I can't wear Miss Dior because that is definitely my mum's to me.

Kenda Willey

My parents and I lived in France in the early 1960's, and my mother bought boxed perfume samplers that saw her through many years. I remember a Worth perfume that she liked, Arpege and Je Reviens. Smelling vintage Je Reviens now, I'm surprised she liked it so much--it's not her at all. What was her was Shalimar, another favorite from her assortments, and she eventually bought a big bottle of it. After that, she wore Joy for years, until Alzheimer's incapacitated her. After she got sick, I presented her with a bottle of Joy from the duty-free shop, and she looked at me and said, "Honey, I can't wear that! You know I've been allergic to perfume all my life!"

Perfumaniac

Hi Kenda,

Thank you for sharing this about your mother, Kenda. I know exactly what little perfume samplers you're talking about. I have a few of them myself, and I wish they'd come out with them again! The adorable mini-bottles, the variety of the latest scents...

I'm sorry to hear about your mother's Alzheimers and her subsequent lack of memory about this fragrant time in her life. I'm glad that you can remember the joy she once got from perfume.

Kenda

Hi Perfumaniac,
Thank you for your post! I, too, wish the samplers would return. After posting my comment, I looked up what they were called: coffrets. You're lucky to have some!

tracey

My Mother wore "Narcissus" which was one of the first perfumes ever made approx. 150 years ago in Paris. I believe the original shop still exists in Paris and still sells this perfume.
My Mother wore this perfume in the 1930's in Australia, I do not know how she purchased it in those days in Australia, but somehow she did.
I found a perfume store in Sydney who ordered some of it for me from Paris, and it still smells devine. I can remember the smell of it when she wore it for many years, when I was little, many years ago.

Tracey

Perfumaniac

Hi Tracey,

Thanks for this wonderful story. Who makes Narcissus? And, if I sent you the proper vials/droppers, would you be able to share? Thanks!

Lois Taylor

My mother bought me a cologne by estee lauder called cotillion when I was 16 in 1974. It was the best perfume I ever had, than estee lauder discontinued it. I have been looking for it and I cant find it online not even in ventage colognes.

Perfumaniac

Hi Lois, Are you should its not Avons Cotillion? Its all over eBay. The perfume encyclopedia doesnt list Cotillion as an Estee Lauder fragrance.

paula lovik

hi all does anyone remember a perfume omp prea vue im not french ,an so its not spelled right,im shure they don,t make it,now but my mother did where it.if you know ?plz blog thanks paula

Perfumaniac

Hi Paula,

I think you mean Imprevu by Coty, which I think means sudden or unexpected. You can get it on eBay. Good luck!: http://www.ebay.com/itm/Coty-Imprevu-Parfum-de-Toilette-6-0-fl-oz-Splash-No-Box-/160928479652?pt=fragrancehash=item257815b9a4

Erika

My mom wore Arpege . Since i was Young I've loved it and own it myself .

Mery

I have the bottle of Pino-Nice Anita that my father sent to my mother from Europe during WWII. It has evaporated to about 1/2" in the bottle and the residue aroma is heavenly. I take it out from time to time to feel as if she's in the room with me. Any information on this fragrance?

Ann McGee

I Have been thinking lately a lot about my Mother she died over 30 years ago I was in my twenties . She wore Pagan and was an older Mother but very stylish.Only today I was in the perfume shop tring to source a modern perfume with a similar smell I was given a tester card sprayed with FIDJI It is similar but not the strong scent I seem to remember. Any thoughts on this? Ann

Hildegerd

My mum wore and still wear Opium, Poison,Samsara and later on White Diamonds.

Elizabeth Parker

My mother wore Houbigant's "Quelque Fleur," which means "bunch of flowers." I gave her so many bottles of this for presents over the years!

Phillip Marcum

First of all thank you for such a lovely blog! I am addicted to it! I read and re-read everything! Perfume is and always has been a very big part of my life! I have ordered your book and am so looking forward to receiving it! I got my love of perfume from both my mother and grandmother! My mother always wore Shalimar, Emeraude, Opium, Fleurs de Rocaille, and always had a big bottle of Arpege extrait! She now has Alzheimer's and sometimes she mentions Le Dix claiming she wore it on her wedding day. What I wouldn't give for just a decant of this for her, since I cannot afford e-bays prices. Thanks again for your lovely blog. You are an incredible lady!

Perfumaniac


Phillip, So glad you like the blog! And I hope you enjoy the book. You can get a reasonably-priced vintage Le Dix by going online to a decant site such as ThePerfumedCourt.com or SurrenderToChance.com. Good luck! You should definitely get some for your mother to smell!

ECM

My mother wore--and still does--Shalimar and Bellodgia. They were her mother's favorites. WHen she was a younger woman my mother wore Dana's Platine but when my grandmother died in the 1960s, she left full bottles of Shalimar and Bellodgia which my mother started to wear to remind her of her mother, and has worn them ever since. Now in her eighties, she alternated between the two and always smells like one or the other, sort of a "Shallodgia"--very nice, I think.

Perfumaniac


Shallodgia sounds fabulous. Thank you for sharing that!

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Jeannemarie

My mother enjoyed My Sin by Lanvin which was a Christmas gift from my father. I also remembered seeing Arpege on her dresser. She tried others over the years, Wrappings by Clinique was a winter favorite. As she got a bit older, she focused on the one scent she loved the most--Maja. A Spanish classic. An herbaceous unisex fragrance that is absolutely lovely! She perfumes her linen closet with Maja soaps, and it is the one fragrance that always reminds me of her.

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